Are you struggling in your marriage? Has the flame started flickering? Are you wondering if there is any hope to revive that fun, lovin’ feeling you once had as newlyweds? Well, today I want to share with you one thing that can spice up your marriage!
This one thing can have a powerful effect on your marriage. It can be the one thing that sparks love, joy, appreciation, respect, flirtation all back into your marriage. But it might surprise you It’s one thing I do not talk about much here on the blog but since it’s the month of Valentine’s Day love is on everyone’s mind so we are going there today.
The one thing that will spice up your marriage is you initiating sex with your husband.
There I said it.
Glad we got that awkward part over with.
Let’s dissect that truth bomb.
When the wife initiates, it’s telling your husband a few things that he needs to know.
You desire him.
You find him attractive.
You admire him.
You need him.
You are completely in love with him.
Not only does your initiating effect your husband in a powerful way but it also affects you.
Makes him want you more.
He finds you even more attractive, irresistible really.
Makes him connect with you.
Makes him appreciate you.
Makes him happy to be home and have such an incredible wife.
So basically not only are you reviving that old spark, spicing up your marriage but you are also setting off a domino effect in your marriage on how the two of you are interacting with one another outside of the bedroom. The more you respect him, chase after him the more he is going to be drawn to you and wants to cherish you which makes you want to respect him and chase after him. If you stop your part, the whole cycle breaks down.
You initiating sex can break down any barriers that you might have up in your difficult marriage. It could break the ice in a difficult marriage and even strengthen a happy one. Who doesn’t want to get their marriage back on track?
Don’t underestimate the power you hold! Don’t settle for a mediocre marriage. You can have a happy, thriving marriage filled with sappy newly married love goodness until death. Honestly, who doesn’t want to feel loved, adored and cherished every single day of their marriage? Don’t settle, initiate sex and see where it takes your marriage.
How are you spicing up your marriage?
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