“You should write a post on how to make your husband feel like the luckiest man alive because that’s how you make me feel.”
That’s my husband, always giving me compliments that make me blush. Because honestly, I don’t feel like I’m doing anything great on any given day.
That shows me that it’s the little things that we wives do that make our men feel like a million bucks. It’s easy to fret that we aren’t doing enough, aren’t dressed up enough, weigh too much, not cooking well enough or even cleaning well enough. But it’s not those things that husbands feel like they’re the luckiest man alive.
If you were to sit down with your man, I’m sure what he would agree with my findings.
1. Give him what he wants when he wants it.
This could range from anything from a quick kiss, a lingering hug, holding hands, time in the bedroom to cooking their favorite meal when they ask. (P) Doing this is showing our sacrificial love towards them which takes a huge dose of humility. I don’t think you would find a man out there that would say that he enjoys being rejected. If your man wants you to stop what you’re doing and enjoy a hug, then do it. You fill up both of your love tanks when you do so. It’s time to gross your kids out and show some affection in your home.
2. Be trustworthy.
When a husband knows that he can trust his wife, he feels lucky. There are so many marriages falling apart because of infidelity and pornography. Make sure your husband knows that he can trust you. Only have eyes for him, don’t keep secrets, share your day with him and be an open book with your passwords and online activity. Don’t overestimate the effect that trust has in your marriage.
3. Compliment him more often than you think you should.
Men love to be complimented. They love to feel needed. It does their ego good.
America is degrading men and father’s, we need to counteract that and show our men how amazing they are.
4. Appreciate him.
Show your man that you appreciate him. Say thank you often. If he does something sweet for you, does something off of your honey-do list then say thank you. We all like to know that we are appreciated, men are no different. Surprise him by thanking him for how hard he works to provide for the family. Don’t underestimate how much your man wants to hear that you appreciate what he does.
There is something about the woman initiating contact that makes a man feel like a million bucks! Be the first one to flirt, to initiate the hug or kiss. And better yet, initiate some time in the bedroom. Knock his socks off and make him feel wanted and he will certainly feel like the luckiest man alive!
None of these things are about your husband deserving it because if marriages is about what we all deserve we would all be miserable. Sadly, most miserable marriages end in divorce. And I don’t know about you but a miserable, mediocre marriage is not what I signed up for. I want a full, thriving happy marriage. I know I’m not alone. So why not pick a few of these tips and start using them in your marriage and see how much your man will light up. Your husband will be delighted with the confident, grateful and trustworthy woman you’re becoming.
Your turn! Which one of these tips do you struggle with? Which ones are you going to start doing today? Let’s chat in the comments below!
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